As I grow older, I often find myself appreciating the simple things in life more and more. For some, this may mean downsizing or simplifying their material possessions. For others, it may be about finding beauty in the imperfect and transitory nature of the world.
Wabi Sabi, a Japanese concept that celebrates the beauty of imperfection and transience, embodies this idea perfectly. I have always been an admirer of Wabi Sabi, and I have come to understand its meaning more deeply with each passing year. Now, at the age of 67, I plan to put this philosophy into motion as I embark on a new adventure in life. I believe that by embracing imperfection and finding beauty in the ordinary, I can cultivate a deeper sense of gratitude and contentment.
It is a philosophy that emphasizes the appreciation of the simple, rustic, and imperfect nature of things. It is not only a design aesthetic but a way of life that encourages us to find beauty in the ordinary and mundane. When I say “mundane” I am referring to things that are ordinary, every day, and commonplace. It encompasses the routine aspects of life, such as daily chores, work, and errands. The mundane can be seen as the opposite of the extraordinary or the exceptional. It is often associated with monotony and boredom, as it can be easy to overlook the beauty and significance of everyday experiences.
By embracing the mundane and finding joy in simple pleasures, we can cultivate a deeper sense of appreciation for life and a more grounded sense of happiness.
In Wabi Sabi, imperfection is seen as a source of beauty and character. Instead of striving for perfection and uniformity, we embrace the unique qualities of each object or experience. For example, a handmade ceramic bowl with slight variations in shape and color is valued for its imperfections and individuality. A piece of furniture with visible knots, cracks, and stains is considered more beautiful than a polished and flawless mass-produced item.
Wabi Sabi also recognizes the impermanence of life and the beauty of aging and decay. A weathered building or a rusted fence is seen as a testament to the passage of time and the inevitability of change. This appreciation of impermanence encourages us to live in the present moment and cherish the fleeting beauty of each experience.
In everyday life, the idea of imperfection in Wabi Sabi can be applied in various ways. In our homes, we can incorporate natural materials such as wood, stone, and clay, which are imperfect by nature, into our decor. We can also display objects that have been passed down through generations or found in thrift stores, which carry the marks of use and age.
In our relationships, we can appreciate the quirks and imperfections of our loved ones, which make them unique and irreplaceable. We can also learn to accept our own imperfections and find beauty in our flaws, which make us human and authentic.
I leave California in a few days and headed back to my home in Florida. I have been away for just over a year and I am now ready to fulfill a way of life I have had for a long time, longed for. And I will practice daily, the art of wabi sabi.